I feel like God was smiling down on the lifting of lockdown restrictions in the UK last week: Tuesday was the hottest March day since 1968. After a weekend spent finally socialising with friends in groups of six - how decadent it was - it feels like good times are right around the corner and we may be seeing the back of this torturous limbo, after all. While the high temperatures were short-lived (statistically we are more likely to see snow at Easter than at Christmas, so it shouldn’t be a surprise, but somehow, every year, it is), the sun is out and the optimism is abundant.
For many of us, though, with the easing of lockdown has come some feelings of social anxiety: an unease around mixing again. Yes, we’ve missed people – hugs especially. Have I mentioned how much I miss hugging people? – but the thought of numerous social engagements, and the associated pressure is just too much.
If only we could all agree not to ‘glow up’ (how I detest that expression) in time for pub visits, would we not all be vastly happier? For many of us, the ‘lockdown load’, or ‘quarantine 15[lbs]’ is real. When there is so much we’re going to have to get used to again – much of it new and unchartered territory – do we really need to put the pressure on ourselves and each other to be perfect, too? Is it not enough just to be grateful for having made it through?
I, for one, will be looking to make the most of the people who I’ve missed painfully over the last year, and feel grateful for the fact that I’m fortunate enough to have people to love and miss, at all. I will be consuming (preferably in a restaurant setting, but picnics on freezing cold park benches will do nicely too) food, friends and wine with abandon. Bring it on!
I went for my first swim this year (on Tuesday which was a relief as the water was an icy 9.5 degrees so I needed that sun to warm up afterwards), and have been back on the tennis court this week too. It feels like such a novelty to be exercising outside the confines of the four walls of my living room. Let’s just hope my coordination - rare at the best of times - hasn’t completely deserted me.
I have finally caved and binged series 4 of Married at First Sight Australia. Wow. I’m desperate to discuss it with someone – anyone seen it recently and keen for book club? I’m thrown by the positioning of this as an experiment overseen by experts, when I’m sure many of the participants will be leaving the show scathed in the name of entertainment. It’s inarguably addictive television - and I am not above it - but it did leave me feeling a bit dirty for having watched it. I’m not sure how comfortable I am about returning for Series 5 and 6 - the pull is real, though.
This has come really highly recommended by a few friends. It’s the story of two families torn apart by adultery and brought together again in the form of a third, complicated, extended family. Patchett is perceptive and wry in her observations, telling the story from the point of view of various members of the family over several decades. I’m only a third of the way through, but so far, I’m really enjoying it.
I’m sure I’m not alone in saying that my mind has turned to dresses in time for Spring. I’ve been scouring the shops for ages to find just the right thing. My Lust List week this week focusses on dresses, so do swing by there on your way out for my edit of the best of the dresses on the High-ish Street for Spring, with prices starting at just £19.99.
As usual, below I’ve linked to all the blogs I’ve uploaded through March, including Your Ultimate Guide to Denim in 2021 and my Best Beauty Buys under £15, so do check them out if you’ve missed them.
And if you have any recommendations to share - sartorial, cultural or otherwise - do drop me a line in the comment section below.
Prue x
ADMIN: Everything I’ve included here, I’ve included solely because I really rate it. I may though, if you buy some of the items mentioned, earn a small commission from that purchase.
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July 2021
- Jul 27, 2021 To bikini or not to bikini? Jul 27, 2021
- Jul 6, 2021 Frost Yourself Jul 6, 2021
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June 2021
- Jun 22, 2021 Buyer's Remorse Jun 22, 2021
- Jun 8, 2021 Save the Date Jun 8, 2021
- Jun 1, 2021 The Summer Solstice is coming Jun 1, 2021
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May 2021
- May 18, 2021 The Blazer: May 18, 2021
- May 11, 2021 Guide to Body Shapes: The Rectangle May 11, 2021
- May 4, 2021 It's May already: how did that happen? May 4, 2021
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April 2021
- Apr 27, 2021 Layer up Apr 27, 2021
- Apr 20, 2021 Shopping sustainably.... an oxymoron? Apr 20, 2021
- Apr 13, 2021 Guide to Body Shapes: The Triangle Apr 13, 2021
- Apr 6, 2021 Leaving hibernation Apr 6, 2021
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March 2021
- Mar 30, 2021 My top ten beauty products under £15 Mar 30, 2021
- Mar 23, 2021 Struggling to make the trench work for you? Read this. Mar 23, 2021
- Mar 16, 2021 Embracing the Wine-Tum Mar 16, 2021
- Mar 9, 2021 Your Ultimate Denim Guide for 2021 Mar 9, 2021
- Mar 2, 2021 Spring has sprung Mar 2, 2021
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February 2021
- Feb 23, 2021 Every wardrobe needs one of these. And it's only £15. Feb 23, 2021
- Feb 16, 2021 Trainers: are you wearing yours wrong? Feb 16, 2021
- Feb 9, 2021 Debunking the Capsule Wardrobe Myth Feb 9, 2021
- Feb 2, 2021 Finding Joy Feb 2, 2021
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January 2021
- Jan 26, 2021 Your Complete Guide to the Best Leggings to Buy Now Jan 26, 2021
- Jan 19, 2021 There's no such thing as bad weather Jan 19, 2021
- Jan 12, 2021 The Puffer Jacket: To Buy or Not to Buy Jan 12, 2021
- Jan 2, 2021 NOTES ON A WARDROBE: Welcome to 2021 Jan 2, 2021